Dating a friend and coworker
"If things fall apart, to what extent could your career potentially be jeopardized?How much of your personal life could be the 'keynote topic' at the water cooler?resize=480:*" / If you're crushing on a colleague, you're not alone: A Career survey found that 40 percent of workers have dated someone on the job during their career, proving that it's a hookup hot spot, albeit one with parameters.Just coupled up with a coworker like Glee costars Lea Michele and Cory Monteith or are thinking about making a move?
And it's up to to decide whether the pros outweigh the cons — or if you're better off steering clear of an office romance.
Studies show that office romance is on the rise, and over 80 percent of people surveyed for one study say that would probably date a coworker. While some of them might blossom, office romances can be a little shaky, mainly because if things go sour, you're going to have to see this guy every day from 9am to 5pm—awkward.
Plus, the last thing you want is the be the source of gossip at the workplace, and you don't want anything to hinder your work.
Some tip-offs: If he starts hanging around your work space a lot or asks you to grab lunch or after-work drinks, says Stephanie Losee, coauthor of It's also promising if he's in an unrelated department yet asks your opinion on a project of his — it indicates that he is looking for an excuse to talk to you and values your opinion, notes Losee.
You can do your own digging by jokingly saying, "Everyone thinks we're seeing each other, ha-ha. " If he casts a wide grin or seems into the idea, the coast is clear to start flirting and see what happens.